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Tuesday 21 January 2020

The end of an era

We've been living in Aude since mid November now and luckily the move went really well! We managed over a three day period to sell Chateau Moorhen, drive down south with the three cats in the Moho then buy our new house with no hitch whatsoever, phew! Whilst the removers were moving our furniture in I sat outside so I could direct them to various rooms, and enjoyed not just the amazing view but warmth from the sun, despite cool air temps. The cats seemed to enjoy their time in the Moho, but no, we won’t be taking them on Moho holidays with us! 😁


I think the boxes are all unpacked now but we are still putting pictures and shelves up, and Keith has just erected Ikea cupboards for the laundry and utility rooms (we have two utility rooms!) because although the house is a decent size with plenty of cupboards, it’s much smaller than our old house. Talking of which, do I miss it? No, not one bit! I’m very happy here. I don’t know what to call the new house yet though. 😄



Not long after moving in we had a break from the unpacking and drove two hours away to the Herault dept to a Christmas market. There seem to be quite a number of British organised Xmas fairs in the Languedoc region, so plenty of choice. This one was held at a beautiful Abbey, the Abbey of Valmagne, which is also a wine estate. We had a very enjoyable day and ate a tasty Chicken Tikka Masala for lunch, with a mince pie later on, to get us Bah Humbugs into the Xmas spirit (didn't really work, after all it was still only November!). There was also a fish and chips van! There were hundreds of stalls through the cloisters and the church as well as outside. 






My brother came over for Xmas as he is alone now that mum has gone, so I went to the trouble of putting a few decs up, and cut a few small branches off a conifer which I stuck in a vase then decorated like a tree. I forgot to take a photo though, but it looked really good until the branches started dying. We had some great outings, the best being lunch in Roses in Spain on Christmas Eve in 20 C sunshine! That was what I had been dreaming of for several years, occasional really warm days in winter and being able to ‘pop’ to Spain now and again. It’s just over 2 hours away via the autoroutes, but the journey is superbly picturesque so the time goes by in no time. What a day that was, sitting outside a restaurant eating tapas, looking at palm trees and the beach. Bliss!

Yum! So much better than French food!

Looking towards the marina at Roses

On the corniche road near the Spain/France border, on the way home

We had more outings with my brother so I hope to get those photos posted at some point, but bear in mind the depression has not lifted completely, it's very weird as I feel so much happier, yet I still face certain things which are Impossible Tasks, blogging and posting regularly on social media being one of them. Replying to emails. Sending Christmas cards. Getting out of bed in the morning. Having a shower/washing my hair. I didn't realise that this was a 'thing' until my husband came across this article, then it all became so much clearer and he now understands why I don't get up until lunchtime most of the time. I haven't even sent change of address letters yet. However, it's great feeling happy again, and I have managed to write this post. Small steps!


10 comments:

  1. You've had a lot on over last few years Mandy, and then there was your health, it all takes time. Hope the new chapter is good for you, the place looks fantastic as is having warmer weather in winter.

    Take care Ian

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    1. Thanks so much Ian. With your lovely comment as well as the ones below, it helps me to realise that it's still quite 'normal' how I am feeling. But there is one thing I keep saying to Keith, that is - if we are enjoying it here this much in winter, imagine how fab it is going to be during the other seasons! I also forgot that I am always a lot worse during winter as well. I'm feeling loads better just reading the comments here and on facebook too, I also forgot that sharing problems helps tons! xx

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  2. So pleased the move went smoothly and you love your new house and feel happier. You have had so much to contend with over the last few years that it will take time. As you so wisely say "Small Steps".

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    1. Thanks so much Caroline. I have missed you and a few others who I used to meet in blogland! I won't cut and paste what I wrote above to Ian but please read it as it's helping me. Love M xx

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  3. House looks amazing and so do you Mandy.Sending much love for health and happiness in you fab new house.Ps views are very uplifting as we have found.xx

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    1. Aww thanks Trishs! You are so right about the view, I tend to forget then suddenly glimpse out of the window and I'm stunned every time! I feel really lucky to have found this house which is in a really good position for getting places as we are at a sort of crossroads of main roads leading to our 5 nearest large towns, which is really handy. Love M xx

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  4. After everything you've been through it's not a surprise you're still struggling, and I can identify with what you are experiencing. Christmas Eve in Spain in 20C sunshine sounds like heaven to me. Glad to see you are still enjoying your photography, it's clear who taught Keith. LOL Enjoy your new home and exploring the locality, above all stay well and keep Keith on his toes.

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    1. Hello Unknown, are you Ian C? Thanks very much for the comments! In fact I am not so interested in photography as I was, K has taken over there, but once the butterflies are out I shall be in the wild patch across the road with my camera! Thanks so much for taking the trouble to comment. Love M xx

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  5. So glad the move went well and it all looks so lovely there. I'd love to be able to pop to Spain in 2 hours, although we could get a Ryanair flight from Newquay I suppose!Also great to hear you are feeling so much better but being sensible with the "small steps". Love Philippa and Alan of course. xx

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    1. Hi Philippa and Alan. I apologise for not replying until now - for some reason I can't comment on blogger anymore on my ipad, and I just haven't got around to using my proper computer until today. Replying to comments on my blog is something I find very hard to do, actually it became one of these Impossible Tasks a long time ago, which I why I shied away from social media. I might feel like chatting one day then I don't want to for several weeks after that. Well better late than never I suppose. Lovely to hear from you. xx

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